From the Journal
Reflections and lessons from my MeNoPause! journey - navigating change with strength, humor, and grace, because life doesn’t pause - and neither do I.
We Were Latchkey Kids. We Can Handle This.
We are the generation that wore keys on shoelaces like badges of honor. We navigated empty afternoons without cell phones, GPS, or supervision—and we survived. Navigating menopause feels a lot like being a latchkey kid all over again: there is no manual, and we are figuring it out as we go. Here is why your specific Gen X grit makes you perfectly built for this challenge.
Executive Function Malfunction: Where Did I Put My Nouns?
Ever walk into a room and immediately forget why you are there? Or look at a spoon and call it a 'soup shovel'? You aren't broken. You are just experiencing an 'Executive Function Malfunction.' This week, we are reframing the brain fog: your internal hard drive isn't failing, it is just fully loaded with years of wisdom, schedules, and everyone else's stuff.
Spring Cleaning My Calendar: The Art of the Polite "No"
Forget scrubbing baseboards or color-coding the linen closet. This March, I’m spring cleaning my obligations. If you are tired of being a 'Yes' woman with a drained battery, it’s time to master the art of the polite 'No.' Here is how to declutter your schedule without the guilt—and why 'That doesn't work for me' is the only explanation you need.
Why I Broke Up with My Jeans: A Love Letter to Elastic
I stood in my closet fighting with a rigid pair of jeans and realized: I am done squeezing into a version of myself that no longer exists. Society says zippers mean you're 'put together,' but I say true power is being able to breathe while sitting down. Here is my official breakup letter to hard pants—and your permission slip to embrace the elastic.
The 3 AM Strategy Meeting No One Scheduled
If your eyes just snapped open at 3:14 AM for absolutely no reason, welcome to the meeting. I call this 'The 3 AM Strategy Committee'—where your brain decides to solve world peace and replay awkward moments from 2004. Here is a proposal for tonight's agenda: acknowledge the meeting, then kindly ask your internal CEO to table the discussion until morning.
My Patience is Currently on Backorder
If you have recently found yourself filled with a white-hot, sudden rage because someone in front of you counted out exact change... welcome to the club. Society calls this 'Menopausal Rage,' but I have a different theory. It isn't a mood swing; it’s an efficiency upgrade. After decades of handling the mental load for everyone else, we simply no longer have the bandwidth for nonsense. Here is why your short fuse is actually a sign of executive functioning.
The Growing Pains of Evolution: When You Outgrow the Past
Evolution is a lonely business until you find the others moving at your speed. This week, we explore the bittersweet reality of outgrowing the connections of your past to make room for a Tribe that matches your new frequency. Stop mourning the circles that required you to play small and start looking for the ones that challenge you to lead.
Meet the Chief Everything Officer (CEO)
Meet the Chief Everything Officer (CEO) - the role so many women hold without ever applying. She didn’t interview. She didn’t negotiate. And yet, everything runs because of her. This post names the invisible labor women carry - and why that weight often feels heavier during perimenopause and menopause.
✨ The MeNoPause! Holiday Survival Guide: Hot Flashes, Boundaries & Holiday Magic ✨
The holidays are here, but menopause doesn’t take a break. From hot flashes to setting boundaries, here’s your MeNoPause! guide to staying joyful, comfortable, and centered this season.